It’s an old cliché; what do you buy the man (or woman) with everything?
Now have a think about it. The person with everything needs nothing but time. And that’s exactly what they haven’t got of course. And it can’t be bought. So there’s no point even thinking down that route.
Except that if you can really pick the right thing – particularly if it’s something new for that special person in your life – it can lead to a whole new vista opening up.
So for example, a friend of mine had always been a keen walker, but had ever been skiing or rock-climbing despite his continual best intentions to take up these outdoor pursuits “when I get time”; which basically meant never due to his work commitments
So for his 40th birthday, his wife bought him (and herself) the whole kit; all the necessary rock climbing equipment as well as the full range of ski clothing; boots, salopettes, ski jackets, the whole works.
And even better, she booked in two holidays over the next year in luxury accommodation; one for climbing with courses to boot, the other for skiing.
This proved to be the ideal gift for my friend. It was an expensive gift, but even that had an advantage in these sense that there was no going back. His wife had spent so much on the trips and the equipment that he felt duty bound to honour the previous statements he’d made that this was what he wanted to do when he had time.
It proved to be quite transformational. This busy man had to honour his holiday commitments. And, as it was well in advance, the time wasn’t a problem. And so it was that he started his new hobby and has found time for it ever since. And his health, well-being and fitness has improved radically a great idea.